Can i be mad at him for something he cant change?

babies can easily sleep up to 10-14 hours a day. if you are a stay at home mom why don't you just sleep when the baby does. That's more than enough sleep for you each day. your husband already has a job, don't make being a father a second job if it doesn't have to be. He will onl;y end up resenting you and the child if you make him live like that. That will then lead to him having an affair, etc.